FACTS:Reasons,why guys should not say "I love you" often to their girlfriends in a relationship

All women love to hear their sweet, adorable, romantic men
tell them these words, right?
Wrong.
The notion of loving someone is far beyond human
conception, and society is abusing this phrase more than a
battered housewife in a Louisville Slugger warehouse that
doubles as a boxing gym.
The quicker these words come out of your mouth, the
quicker you will NOT be getting laid, and the quicker her
attraction to you will fade. I've stressed it before in previous
articles, and I'll say it again: Sex is primarily a physical
need for men, and an emotional need for women. When a
man is attracted to a woman, sometimes he feels compelled
to tell her that magical phrase in an effort to win big points.
But this can produce the exact opposite result. Naturally,
women have always thrived on the suspense and mystery of
playing "he loves me, he loves me not" petal-plucking game
to satisfy that emotional need. A woman needs only the
slightest hint that you "love" her, and that is enough to fulfill
her emotional desires.
But then what?
She knows she can have you, and you are under her control,
which can become a very dangerous enterprise (does the
term "whipped" mean anything to you?). There is no more
anticipation, no more build up, no more mystery, no more
curious excitement. These are the things that hold people
attracted to each other in a relationship, ESPECIALLY AND
SPECIFICALLY EARLY ON IN A RELATIONSHIP.
You're probably asking yourself, "But what if I really DO
love her?" To that, I offer some simple yet sound advice:
DON'T TELL HER!!! Talk is cheap, but actions are not. Don't
tell her, show her, by being interested in her. Give her
spurts of attention, then pull away. Keep the relationship
exciting and refreshing. Women like men who they "feel"
attracted to; men of ACTION, not weak, emotionally wreaked
wussies.
If you "feel" that you love a woman and are eager to tell her,
follow this formula:
Take the amount of time that you have dated her (in
months). Now place a one over it, like a fraction (i.e. if it is
4 months, you will make it into 1/4). Now, multiply that
number by 36. There, you are done! The number you arrived
with is the number of months you should wait before telling
her those not-so-magical words. If you can wait longer
than that, all the better. Women should be discussing their
feelings with their girlfriends, not you.
Here is the mathematical equation:
(1/D) * 36 = X
D= number of months dating
X= how many months (at minimum) you should wait to tell
her "I love you"
The point is that too many men are emotional basket-
cases, acting on weak impulses fueled by insecurity largely
due to unisexification (see articles on this phenomenon).
Women love a challenge, not some dolt who falls head-
over-heels in love with her after two dates. A couple of
rules that accompany this formula are:
1) If you are not dating the woman exclusively, you should
NEVER TELL HER "I LOVE YOU" (especially if the two of you
are just "friends", and you are pathetically falling in love
with your friend, which is sadly all too common these days)
2) If the woman says "I love you" first, simply reply with, "I
know...you should!" This helps build tension and attraction
that is guaranteed to explode into unbridled intimacy.
Love is a special, elusive experience that grows and
strengthens over time. It is based on dedication to making
the relationship work, sacrifice, loyalty, commitment and
duty. These are not things that just happen overnight. So
for now, tell her that you know she loves you, but never say
you love her, unless it is your wedding day or either one of
you are on your death beds.